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Ladies and Gentlemen,
With everything going on and the lies, deceit and mistrust in the dating field the past few years, I'm going to help you men out. These are the types I'd warn my two boys away from when they are older. I'm trying to warn you but if you don't believe me, I wouldn't blame you. Ladies, read this. If you find you fit one of these types, work on yourself. Otherwise, you'll find yourself alone. The men are waking up and taking charge, so decide where you'll be at the end of the race ladies.
I'm higher than thou: You Know these types. The good looking, proclaimed queens that say they want Kings but they really want a man to rule. They will say they are more beautiful than a goddess, They treat everyone like a servant, except their father who gives in to them. They will make your life hell. They will be extremely materialistic and it won't stop at her bills and dates. She will slowly start adding to the list of what she needs to be happy until you are looking at 100,000 buy of either clothes, shoes or a remodel of the kitchen because she wanted it to match her toaster. Stay away, red flag, what ever you want to call it. Run fast and quick. These women know how to catch the guys on their purpose and if you aren't ready, she'll catch you. Walk away, and shut her down. Or lie about what you make so she looses interest, but best not to talk to these silver tongues.
Gold Diggers: They come in many forms, but unlike the first they have a lifestyle and you give it or they leave. They make their intentions known. They'll be freaks in the bedroom, willing to do anything. They may also have a sugar daddy or are looking for one. Yes, there is a difference between the two. The first cares about title while the gold digger doesn't care where the money comes from. You could be a drug dealer as long as you keep up her lifestyle. She'll be the one with purses and clothes always in mint condition ready to sell in case you kick her out.
Low self esteem: These will need constant validation from everyone and everything. Yes, I mean everything. EVEN the pets. She needs to be complimented all the time or she will pull all the stops. Anger, manipulation, crying, oh the tears. She needs to be the first on you and all of your friends' list. She will seem to battle against your friends' wives because she wants their men to think she's better. She will be online showing off her body without any pictures of you or you two together. If the dog runs to you first, she runs to get a treat to be more loved than you. Walk away from her as you will never fill her need and she will always need more.
Drama Queens: You know who these are. If you haven't met one, then you are lucky. She will cause chaos every where she goes. You could write a book on her misfortune or drama filled life. She reminds you of a main character on a late night drama show. Don't even try. She'll try to get you with a sob story of her life, usually about her ex. Don't listen, it's only half true.
Sex controllers: You may not know this one right away. They can come off calm and logical. They tend to be great in bed. Then they move in. All hell breaks loose. She will use sex against you all the time. You'll find yourself in a horrible position of begging for sex. "I'm too mad to have sex!" or "I'm not a light switch that you can just turn on!" She'll get so mad over you not taking the trash out, but will make that one night a month or a year so amazing she brings you hope. Don't let this happen. Kick her out the door before she has you on your knees begging for something that should be an exercise of love and desire.
Control Freaks: These are the ones who check your phone, social media accounts, call up your friends to see where you were, track your car, put cameras in the hoe and a lot more. They are the ones to get pissed at you for being a few minutes off the mark from when you said you'd be. She sees you talking to another girl and the 100 questions start. Always accusing you of cheating. Probably is cheating herself which is why she's trying to control you, or she is just a control freak. Either is bad for you. Don't walk away, run! You'll never have peace with this one and don't be surprised if she's a bit harder to get rid of than normal. They do not like being rejected.
Masculine One: Usually a straight feminist. But not always. She will try to demean you, shut down your masculinity, embarrass you by calling out your flaws in front of others, spill every secrete you've ever told her. and force you into feminine roles. Another one to run away from, unless you want to be the weak man. Otherwise run. She will never change for you. She wants you to change for her and then will be the one to leave you because you aren't exciting enough.
The flake/commitment issues: Last minute cancelations, very spaced and seems forgetful except circumstances look like it's on purpose, text you one day 5 times and the next nothing for the whole day. Shows interest and then doesn't. She is either testing you or she's got commitment issues. Walk away. Don't worry, she'll probably forget all about you in an hour once you call it off.
The one who stops taking care: I'm not talking about the one where you only have cold showers and she doesn't want to get sick, or all of her makeup is old because she puts you and the kids first. I'm talking about the one who doesn't try to keep her weight under control. The one who doesn't wear makeup out. The one who won't wear dresses anymore. The one who's heals were traded in long ago for crocs. If she's not taking care of herself, then what will motivate you to take care of yourself? A healthy relationship will be both of you trying to look good for each other.
The easy to manipulate: These are the ones who want to please. Not just you but all of her friends too. Falls prey to believing the media and internet a bit too much. Doesn't research on her own. Doesn't question what others have to say. She'll be the one to listen to her friends when they say you are doing something wrong or they'll convince her to do something like ask for an open relationship. Or tell her she's missing out on life. This will be tiring and exhausting to endure. You don't need a child to watch over. You need a partner.
These are the ones I would suggest you avoid at all costs. They'll make your life hell. Some women might diversify these a bit more but I like to keep it simple as these types tend to run together. If we as females, avoid them, men should drive 100 miles an hour away from them. Hope this helps and as always, take hold of your own future.
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