Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
There's a beguiling incantation that hangs in the air, promising a bygone era where men could win over high-quality women without breaking the bank. But this enchanting tune hides a more profound reality that we should all take note of, regardless of gender. Let's cast aside the veil and discover the truth that lies beyond.
I'm sure we have all seen these:
or these:
Now, what do these have to do with getting a quality woman? Nothing. It instead has to do with the past. I'm sure we have all heard the stories from Reddit or other sites where family secretes have been opened like a can of rotten meat. If not, here are some stories with the links to the orginal sites for your entertainment.
These are only a few of what you can find online, Youtube shorts or on Tiktok.
So what's the big deal?
A lot of these stories are recent, yet many of these stories are about parents (Gen X) or older generations of lies and deciet. So did those men get quality women for less? Or were they lured into the enchantment of female beauty even back then, without the advantage of DNA testing or lie dectectors?
If men really did get quality women back then, why is there so much scandle surrounding the DNA testing when the results don't match? Even if cheating is not the centerpoint. Some families are finding out that one of their parents decided unilaterially to use donations for conception. (either egg or sperm) Some people are finding out that the one they love and have had children with, they are cousins or second cousins. (Just when you thought we left that with the monarchy.)
I highly doubt men used to get higher quality women for less. Maybe a smaller percentage of men did, but the DNA surprises are blowing up the "Family Secretes" chests all over the world. Now does this mean women have been manipulating men for generations? Possible. At least the worst kind of women that unfortunately, is all most men see. Why? Because they present themselves in the most alluring and suductive way.
"Well why can't good women do that too?"
Good women will dress themselves according to how they want to be percieved. In comparison to the women that leave men's jaws on the ground, good women will look like the small company making bread by hand. What do I mean?
The big companies have the beautiful packaging, entire teams to focas on getting you to pick up that bread, even reducing their price. Now how can a small company compete when they have to make all of their packaging by hand, their product by hand and they only have 3 people helping them? It's not easy. In fact most consumers look only at the price and move on.
Come on men, just because you can get her in bed after a Mc Donalds meal doesn't mean she's healthy for you long term. Now most men know that, yet men are still falling for the women who hide their prolific body count and past. Sure, she can hide her past, in fact she can turn into a completely different person untill she gets the ring. In fact if you take the DNA test results from around the world into account, they've been doing this for a long time. SO how do you fight against this?
Forget about marriage till you have lived together for at least 5 years. I used to think two, and my opinion has drastically changed based on further research. For the women who might be crying right now, get over yourself. You're a part of the problem. As a mom of 3, I see the world my children will be growing into and it is sin city 2.0. As a woman, if you want a man to be there to give you children and provide for you long term, you ladies need to not only start looking earlier, but also step it up. If all the slu** and h**** are badgering men about getting married quickly, with no prenup and never DNA testing the kids, what should you ladies be doing? Literially the exact oposite. That is all we can do as good women.
Men, try exactly what you tell women to do. Deversify. I understand that men are primarily visual. Yet if only going after the really hot women isn't working for you, might be time for a change. It also could be you aren't attracting the women you want to be attracting. How do you change that?
1. Being honest. Stop allowing your speech to be curtailed based on a woman's feelings. You're dam*** if you do and dam*** if you don't so just do it. Be honest. If she can't take it, then she's not worth the trouble.
2. Beauty is only skin deep. Siren's voices are beautiful till the moment they drown you. Be aware and never rush into anything. A good woman will make her intentions known because she wants the whole package, not just the ring or atm. Little things, like knowing your quirks or doing things for you just to make your life easier. Complimenting you. (Seriously it's not just for women) She might even be corny romantic.
3. Knowledge is your best weapon. The good thing for our gentlemen is these women litterly say and do the exact same thing while cheating and after. It's like it's from a playbook. Hey, maybe it actually is, at least a verbal one past down. Research, watch Youtube channels, listen to stories and learn the red flags. If our DNA testing has anything to say about it, this has been going on longer than most of us realize.
Have any stories to tell? Leave a comment! Have a question, send a mesage in the chat or leave a comment. To all the good men and women left, stay strong and raise stronger children.
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