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Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
Today we will be talking about the excitement in a relationship that everyone says they loose and end up feeling like room mates. So men, how can you change this? There are a lot of articles that will tell you to be more open or give her more gifts or somehow throw charity into the mix. Let's get down to the basics men. Here are some simple things you can do to help or prevent.
Show off what it means to be a man: "But I thought women hated men who showed off?" You are her man, why wouldn't she want you to show off to her? We aren't talking going to the train station and jumping on a train here. I just mean show off your strength. Is she vacuuming? Help her by moving furniture out of the way. Is she struggling with that jar? Open it for her, smile and walk away. Find ways to show off what she loves about you in a bold, yet simple way.
Unexpected: This could mean, randomly grabbing her and kissing her with passion... and then walk away. Yes, I mean walk away. Leave her speechless as to what exactly just happened. This could mean randomly picking her up. It could mean smacking her behind and walking away. Just do unexpectant things to take her by surprise. All of a sudden start tickling her which could turn to a wrestling match. Tease them. Make them chase you.
Take the lead: How? Make plans and not tell her. If your immediate response is, she hates surprises, maybe she's not for you. But find someone to watch the kids, and then you plan out the day. Make her follow your lead. Make sure to drive so she really has to depend on you. It's only for a day, she'll survive.
Introducing new bedroom fun: This can be an obvious way to bring some more excitement back in. Try introducing new moves, role play or more into the bedroom scene. I'm sure your imagination can take it from there.
Go on a trip together: Try going on a trip where you are in the car together for an hour or two. It doesn't have to be far. Maybe check out a new restaurant, flee market, farmers market or anywhere new and exciting. It can be an hour away or a state away. Give it a shot! Take the time in the car to explore more about each other.
Taking the time to be sensual: Men, those of us who love cuddles will love this time as well. Take time to touch each other, Snuggle, spooning, just laying together, watching a show or movie night, or maybe star gazing. Just take the time to be with each other and touch each other.
Try taking time away to yourself: This can be healthy for both of you. Even if you to are in the same room, just doing separate activities can help. Maybe schedule time to go fishing, or what ever your hobbies are take time for them. Sometimes taking time for yourself and distance from your spouse even if for a few hours, can help deepen the bond.
These are examples to help and I hope it does. A relationship should grow and strengthen as you age together. Remember to take your future into your own hands.
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