Is she into me?

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

This blog is more for our young men. How to know if a girl is into you. Now our older men will probably laugh and say this is easy but for our young men this will be a big question. This is so much confusion on when to know if a woman is into you so today I'll give you sure fire signs that she is into you. This is again for the majority of women as there will be outliers. Not every woman will display all these signs all at once. So let's get into it!

She contacts me at least twice a day: This is extremely important especially for our online daters. She will talk to you at least twice a day. This is a general balance between, "I am really interested" and "I'm needy". With all the competition, if she's interested, she will contact you at least this much so you are aware of her interest. This will also help you know who are playing games and who are ready to take the plunge. This may not mean she always texts with a question. She may just text and say, "I hope you have a good day" This is where she is showing you that she is thinking of you, while also leaving it up to you if you want to continue the conversation.

Fixes clothes or plays with hair: I know this was always said when I was younger so I'm surprised more don't know about this. If you are on a date and you see her twirl with her hair, seem to be constantly combing the end ds of her hair or keeps fixing her clothes this is a big sign. It's called preening. She is trying to draw your attention to her and subconsciously is trying to look good for you. This means she's attracted to you.

She reacts to your body language: Women follow the signs men give off about themselves. If you promote weakness, you'll find her being more stand off. She will either be turned off or take control quickly. In the reverse, if she is tilting her head, leaning in to you while you are talking, eyes watching your face and body language then she is interested. To get this, you need to portray strength, confidence, and a leader like quality.

She seems shy or nervous around you: She is trying to find her comfort level with you. She may let you talk or it may take more thought out questions to open her up. If she still hangs around you and responds to your touch then she is interested and is just shy.

She asks a lot of questions: This may be questions about you, or may be bizarre questions that require more of an answer than a yes or no. Women will ask questions on anything they are interested in and this includes the men they are dating.

If she lets you get a sentence in: Along the same lines as above, if she's interested she will want to know more about you. Women who only talk about themselves on a date may not actually be interested in as much as having a soundboard. This doesn't mean only talk about yourself, because it will have the same affect as a woman only talking about herself.

She touches you or encourages your attempts at holding hands, hugs and such: This is very common among women as they are emotional creatures that thrive on touch. Part of why we love cuddles so much. Instinctually, women want to be able to touch their man so later on, if she feels threatened, she'll let you know by how she touches you. Maybe her hand squeezes yours or you find her even closer to you. This is not a friend thing.

Her body seems much more open: This means her arms aren't crossed, she's leaning in, whole body is turned in your direction, then she is into you. With a friend she will be more likely to turn her head towards them but the whole body won't be facing. Her body won't seem tense, in fact it'll be much more relaxed as the date proceeds.

Blushing: Not so much from compliments. Think more as you pass a book store and she sees her favorite series just came out with a new book. She may run to it excited and then realize she's on a date and blush while looking away. Blushing or smiling while looking away is a good indicator she is interested in you. She may even act like a dork, fumbles with words. As a woman, when we are really interested in a guy, our confidence goes out the window and this awkward person comes out. We may even try to act confident to only have it seem to disappear. She may even seem very frustrated that she can't seem to walk or talk correctly.

She laughs with you: You don't have to be the court jester to get her to laugh with you. If she participates in playful banter with you or you two laugh at some silly videos. This is a good sign of a strong starting point. While women will not want a funny man all the time, she also doesn't want a completely serious guy all the time. So find a balance between the two will help you out of dates. You may only be stating the obvious but if she laughs with you, it's a good sign.

She bites her lips: This may seem small but if she is biting her lips, she is extremely attracted to you. You may see her bite her lips, or play with her lips with her teeth. This is about as a direct sign as you will get. She may not know she's doing it.

This are good signs to look for when she is interested in you as far as the first few dates are concerned. Keep in mind if you stop being the rock, foundation or the protector, this will change the relationship. Relationships are work. You don't get the girl and then you stop trying. The most successful relationships continue to try to impress each other through out the years.

As always, take hold of your own future.

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