Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
Today's post is for the men. In today's society there is this general understanding that women and children are to be cherished no matter what. No matter the weight they put on, no matter the increasing attitude they give, even if they cheat on you! If you dare talk about the past decades you get called a misogynistic jerk, (trying to keep it PG) and how dare you attempt to control women.
Well it's time to change this. Why? Bluntly speaking, women can leave men for any reason so why can't men? It's time to break down this idea that only men have expectations they need to meet in a relationship. Stop giving in to becoming a slave to your marriage.
Here's the truth. Men have al the risk when they get married. Lets look at some stats.
In the United States, about 50% of married couples divorce, the sixth-highest divorce rate in the world. Subsequent marriages have an even higher divorce rate: 60% of second marriages end in divorce, and 73% of all third marriages end in divorce.
Ouch. On top of a 50% chance of succeeding, the woman gets the house, cars, custody of kids and alimony in divorce. Now many men decide that is reason enough, to not get married. My question to all of you men, why not raise your standards? Why give up on children, and a happy family instead of raising your standards? Is it because you believe you aren't worth it? Raised by a family where your mother had your father on a leash with a whip cracking behind him? Influenced by feminism? Time to change this mindset.
First step to raising your standards is to figure out what is important for yourself. What qualities do you want a woman to have? No matter what it is. The likely hood you will get all of that is rare but you aren't looking for 100%. You should have no issues finding 90% if not more of what you want in a woman.
Second step is to not CARE of what others think of your expectations. Women and men will try to tell you that expecting a women to cook, clean, stay home, have a low body count and keep in shape is looking for too much. It really isn't. Hell, women usually have two pages of requirements. If you start to care of other opinions, then you'll end up lowering your standards without even realizing it. Instead just shrug in front of your guy friends. If girls question you, then just smirk and say,
"This is what I expect from a woman if she is interested in having a family and being taken care of by me. If you don't agree with the standard, I understand. This is where we say good bye."
First, woman are not used to be rejected. So this will drive them nuts as they go online or to their friends to validate their position. Stick to your guns. Don't back down. Two, if you want to be happy, then you need to make sure he expectations are there at the beginning. If you want her to stay in shape then make it clear.
Third is to make sure you meet what a woman would demand. So you are a protector, provider with a purpose, funny and so forth. Make sure you meet these requirements so while expecting a lot from a woman, you can show her you offer a lot in return. This will also increase your confidence in yourself.
Prenup. Yup. A woman should enter into a contract to prove to you that she is not just interested in taking your money and child support.
Have your finances tied up to make it hard for her to empty the accounts or get all of your assets. Woman like easy prey, so don't be easy. She'll pretend to be offended as she works to manipulate you into giving in. Don't let it happen.
Be unpredictable. This is a unique inside into how women work. This doesn't mean a vacation every month. It can be really simple. Smacking the behind randomly while walking away. Picking her up for no reason. Leaving a cliffhanger when you are telling her about the plans for the day.
Bonus! When a woman feels like the choice she makes will devalue herself in her man's eyes, she will make the correct choice. So how do you use this?
'Hey babe, I'm going out with my friends to party at the new cub."
"By yourself? Really? I didn't realize you were that kind of woman."
"What do you mean! What are you trying to say?"
"I mean would your mother go out to a party without your father?"
"Um no, but my mom is old now..."
"It's your choice, I just thought you were a classy woman, ready to have a family, that's all."
" What do you mean?"
" I had picked to go out with you over other women, because you were classy and looked ready to have a family, which I highly valued. Seriously, go have fun with your friends. I was just surprised."
This works just about every time. Women if given the choice, would rather not devalue themselves in front of a man they desire. It's also not manipulation. You are stating how surprised you were and stating that her doing this will devalue her value in your eyes. You are being honest. Men nowadays are taught that being honest to women is death. In reality, it's the only way a man will keep a woman. This does me you need to be prepared to walk away as well. So before trying this, make sure you are ready to walk away and find something better.
That's all for this blog post but I really hopes this helps anyone who may need this. If you have a opinion or a story of your own about this topic, leave a comment and let me know what you think. Have a topic for a blog post? Go to my website and e-mail me and I will thank you when I type the blog. Want to help support me? Share the blog, subscribe to the e-mail, or become an affiliate to help bring traffic. In a world where having an opinion that differs from the current ideologies, traffic helps me stay independent through ads shown on my site. If you want to make a donation go my website where you will see a donate button through Paypal. Thank you to all of my current subscribers and affiliates for the support as I work to bring you new perspectives, or even just a fun read. Stay tuned for the next blog!
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