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Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
Today we are going to talk about a few questions that either I have been asked or others have been asked about women to help you along the dating market. Understand, there is no understanding women. We are not men. Even men who are experts with the normal women, they'll get those outliers that throw everything out the door and now they are confused. Women's brains are like a ball of yarn. Not only is all connected but every thought pattern has several others attached and twirled around it like yarn. So this is only a baseline.
Why do women say they don't want anything, when they do? Not all women do this. Some of us are smart enough to understand that men are not mind readers and if we want something we need to say it. Most haven't realized this or just don't care. So there are a couple possibilities. One, they have not got it through they're head yet that men are not mind readers. She'll be the type to drop hints and then get pissed off when you don't catch it. Two. She doesn't want to look materialistic or demanding. This is all due to appearances. With women being labeled as materialistic or expensive, she will be less likely to say what she wants. Three. You guys can't afford it. She may want something nice but maybe finances are tight. She will not want to burden you with guilt because it's not in the budget. How to solve? Well you could take the normal route and get them something anyway. This may backfire, because you don't get her exactly what she wants. Try explaining to her that men are not mind readers. Tell her if she really wants nothing, you will not get her anything. She may get her friends assurances that you'll get her something. Let her find out the hard way. There is no reason a guy should be in a "damned if I do, damned if I don't" mentality. Will it create a fight, maybe. Then maybe you aren't the right fit. More likely, she will realize you kept your word and next time she'll tell you. For the ladies yelling at me in the background, if you want something, then tell the guy. Again you have competition, severe competition. You want to stand out, then try telling him what you want. This will prevent frustration on both ends.
Why do women love cuddles so much? Very simple. Cuddling gives us a sense of protection, security and comfort. That's really it.
What's with so much passive aggressive behavior and holding grudges? It's who we are. The more experienced women, or the ones raised by a traditional women may not seem to exhibit this but we do. We just are better at controlling it. Most of the time we learn to control it because we hate it when it's done to us. And yes, women can hold long grudges. Years, and decades. Many learn that holding grudges is a waste of energy. We realize life is unpredictable and we don't have time for such waste of energy. I will tell you even if you have a women who isn't as passive aggressive, this does not mean she won't remember what ever was done to her.
Why do women go to the bathroom together? This one is simple as well, even if it's funny for men. It's protection. Women generally feel better going to any place they don't know together. Yes this can mean even when on the phone. Again a primitive part of women, that most don't even know about themselves. It makes us feel safe. Plus, you never know if you need to escape a bad situation.
Why do women say they hate women? This is a generalized statement. We're referring to the percentage of our gender that make the rest of us look bad. Drama starters, liars, manipulators, those who act like they are in high school and so forth. We have just about zero tolerance for them because we can see right through them. It does not mean all women.
Why do women ask if they look okay, and only one answer is right? In my experience it's usually because her self esteem is low or they are looking for validation. What's the difference? Searching for validation can not be fixed. She'll search for it everywhere. Personally I don't do this. If I ask, I actually want an answer. Or I don't ask. Not all women act like this either.
Do I really have to pay for dinner? It's 2022. No. If she's materialistic then you probably will not see her again. How to avoid this? Keep first date simple. Or meet somewhere, get there early and get your own stuff paid with cash. I'd stick with keeping the first few dates simple. It'll show if she's actually interested in you if she doesn't mind those types of dates.
Why do you say you're okay when you're not? Ahh. The "I'm fine" statement. Women want to be opened up. We aren't like men. We do not generally figure out our problems by stewing on it. We need to talk it out. We also need to restore our emotions back to neutral to be able to figure out our problems. That means talking about it.
Why do women scream and jump so much when excited? Depends on the age. It really comes down to we are emotional creatures. So we have extreme sides to those emotions at times.
Why do women order a salad and then steal my food? They don't want to appear fat, they want to appear healthier eater than... okay yeah it's all about appearances. Women will order a salad because they aren't comfortable enough to show their eating habits to you yet. Then they actually are really hungry because they normally eat more than a salad. That's where the puppy dog eyes or the blunt steal your food comes in. No, not all women do this. Some will actually threaten you with a fork if you try to steal their food.
These are just a few questions I've heard over the years. If you have questions yourself, comment below and I'll answer them in another blog.
As always, take your future into your own hands.
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