Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
Ladies, we've all heard this, and men, I'm sure you've said this. Using the word, "Crazy" to describe a woman. Ladies you may be asking yourself, what does this mean? So let's get serious. In this article I'll explain what this means and different ways to help improve yourself so you are not as crazy as the majority. If you like my blogs, follow and like us on our social media accounts! It helps us get feed back to see what articles to do next and the best way to help our traditional community.
Now ladies, let's be honest. We are all crazy in one way or another. We are naturally emotional creatures. This can lead to extreme, emotionally responses towards different situation. The first thing you can do to help improve this is realize it. When a man makes a joke about women being crazy, don't get upset. Laugh with them because you have met or heard of a woman that even you would label crazy. So first step is acceptance. Now on to reasons why men might call you crazy.
You make a mountain out of a molehill: Yes this means you make a big deal over little things. Examples? Here we go.
Your man's phone goes off and says "Hey it's Stacy! It's been forever and I want to meet you for some coffee to catch up." It is not a known number. How do you react? If you are thinking he's cheating then you fit into this category. Who is she? His cousin who got a new number and wanted to catch up. Ladies why would you freak out and assume the worst? There was no sexual picture, no pet name, and she stated who she was. Why freak out? Instead you can let him know about the message and if he knew the woman. If he asks why tell him you know how crazy some women can be and want to make sure it's not a stalker. This will put him at ease to know you don't immediately think he's cheating on you and will be more open with you in the future. Remember, innocence until proven guilty.
Next example: You are at a work event for his job. You go to the bathroom and come out to see him with another woman smiling and laughing. Was your first thought to walk over there and demand to know who she is? If so, time to take a deep look at yourself. He's at a work event. Don't make a scene. Go up and take his arm gently. Tell him you were going to get a drink and wanted to see if he wanted one too. Then you can turn to her and apologize for not introducing yourself like this, "Oh hi! I' sorry, I should have introduced myself, I'm Rose, his wife. It's wonderful to meet you." This keeps the situation polite and will be more likely to gain respect from your man as he sees you don't jump down his throat after seeing him with a woman. Now you need to say this nicely. Like an old 50's movie nice. Trust me it works wonders.
Next one. He normally comes home at 5pm. He didn't talk much today and he came home at 6;30. What do you do? If you think you should flip out on him for not calling, you will loose a man over this. Why not go give him a big hug and kiss and tell him you were worried. Ask if everything is okay. Why? He could have been in traffic, stuck at work with a last minute meeting, received bad news he's working through, and a lot more. So instead of yelling and nagging on how he could have called you, why not be kind and gentle. Make sure he's okay first. Then gently tell him how worried you were because you hadn't heard anything. Communication is key and a guy on edge all the time is bad for both of you. He will always be on edge and you will always feel the need to attack.
So ladies think about how you reacted in these situations to see if you make a big deal out of nothing. If you do, first step is acceptance and then work on yourself.
No rational thinking: This is not just men. Women call each other crazy when they seem to have no rational thinking at all. These generally are women who can't accept the truth or responsibility for their actions. They tend to be more extreme than other women in the emotions and have no issues riding the wave of emotions to the end.
She has the laundry list for dating: Yes, I'm going there. If you have even one page of requirements for your man to be date worthy, you are insane. This in my experience means you have unrealistic expectations. You seem to be looking for a perfect man that isn't real. No one is perfect. Neither are you. So if this is you, go read my blog on what women want so you can get a more realistic idea about what qualities to look for in a man.
She is drama filled to the brim: These are the ones who love to destroy things, use a hammer at your car, throws things at your head, uses suicide as a threat to control you and so forth. These women are insane. Just run away. Even as a woman. They will never leave you in peace. These are the ones where if there is no drama, they will create it.
The last one is simple. If any woman says she's not crazy, you need to get away. Any rational woman will admit she can be crazy and laugh with you. One who actually is crazy or fits into these categories, will be insulted and ready to tackle you. There is also an idea with men, that any women who gets a neck tattoo is crazy. Now, I don't know anyone like that but if you young ladies want to succeed in the dating market, maybe put the tattoo on your back or another place on your body instead of your neck. Any little thing helps.
These are my opinions and I suggest you to check around and do your own research. Ladies if you fit into one of these, you can work on self improvement which will not only help you but help the relationships around you. Now keep in mind, if you think you need help, go seek a psychologist or talk to your family. If not, and you do these things and know they have a negative reaction, then you are crazy.
As always ladies, take your future into your own hands.
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